Dysfunctional Family: Making Peace with Your Past [Hope For The Heart Series]
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In many ways, dysfunctional families are becoming the "new norm" in our society, affecting families in and outside the church. In this 96-page book, June Hunt explains the signs, characteristics, and impact dysfunctional families have on children's attitudes and behavior - revealing the ugly truth that dysfunction often produces more dysfunction. She presents practical ways to break the generational cycle of dysfunction, giving hope to those who come from this background and equipping those who minister to them (pastor, church leader, or friend) with practical insight on how to help.

Coming from a dysfunctional family can often make a person feel helpless - doomed to repeat the same mistakes and behaviors as their parents. June emphasizes that change is possible. Using the familiar Bible story of Joseph and his brothers, June reveals how God can use one family member yielded to Him to change the dynamics of an entire family.

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Title: Dysfunctional Family: Making Peace with Your Past [Hope For The Heart Series]
By: June Hunt
Format: Paperback
Number of Pages: 96
Vendor: Aspire Press
Publication Date: 2014
Dimensions: 7.00 X 4.00 X 0.25 (inches)
Weight: 4 ounces
ISBN: 1596369361
ISBN-13: 9781596369368
Series: Hope for the Heart
Stock No: WW369368

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In many ways, dysfunctional families are becoming the "new norm" in our society, affecting families in and outside the church. In this 96-page book, June Hunt explains the signs, characteristics, and impact dysfunctional families have on children's attitudes and behavior—revealing the ugly truth that dysfunction often produces more dysfunction. She presents practical ways to break the generational cycle of dysfunction—giving those who come from this background hope and equipping those who minister to them (pastor, church leader, or friend) with practical insight on how to help.

Coming from a dysfunctional family can often make a person feel helpless—doomed to repeat the same mistakes and behaviors as their parents. Change is possible. Using the familiar Bible story of Joseph and his brothers, June reveals how God can use one family member yielded to him to change the dynamics of an entire family.

Compassionate in its approach, rich with scripture, and easy-to-understand, this 96-page book explains how to reverse the impact of unhealthy family relationships.

  • Includes a quick overview and key definitions. What is a dysfunctional family? What is a "functional" family? How does being raised in a dysfunctional family affect future relationships?
  • Reveals signs, symptoms, and common characteristics of a dysfunctional family.
  • Explains how unresolved conflicts in the past often cause children to repeat the dysfunctional behavior of their parents.
  • Provides dozens of step-by-steps suggestions and practical ways to replace "old mindsets and behaviors" from unhealthy family relationships with God's truth.


The dynamics of dysfunction are detrimental to the family. Discover how to cultivate your family now for the generations that follow as you establish and apply the principles of biblical truth in your own family.

Publisher Description

In many ways, dysfunctional families are becoming the "new norm" in our society, affecting families in and outside the church. In this 96-page book, June Hunt explains the signs, characteristics, and impact dysfunctional families have on children's attitudes and behavior—revealing the ugly truth that dysfunction often produces more dysfunction. She presents practical ways to break the generational cycle of dysfunction—giving those who come from this background hope and equipping those who minister to them (pastor, church leader, or friend) with practical insight on how to help.

Coming from a dysfunctional family can often make a person feel helpless—doomed to repeat the same mistakes and behaviors as their parents. June emphasizes that change is possible. Using the familiar Bible story of Joseph and his brothers, June reveals how God can use one family member yielded to Him to change the dynamics of an entire family. She also tells the remarkable true story of Catherine Brown Deeken, a woman who grew up in a shattered home with 2 alcoholics, but who now (through the grace of God) runs Rainbow Days, a ministry which supports over 65,000 children who are living in high-risk situations.

Compassionate in its approach, rich with scripture, and easy-to-understand, this 96-page book explains how to reverse the impact of unhealthy family relationships

  • Includes a quick overview and key definitions. Answers—
      What is a dysfunctional family? What is a "functional" family? What are the dysfunctional family roles? How does being raised in a dysfunctional family affect future relationships?
  • Reveals signs, symptoms, and common characteristics of a dysfunctional family.
      Explains the 8 dominant traits characterized by dysfunctional families, including chaos, control, denial, inconsistency, emotional indifference, instability, shame, and unpredictability.
  • Explains how unresolved conflicts in the past often cause children to repeat the dysfunctional behavior of their parents.
      Includes a checklist to see if you—or someone you know—is showing signs of unresolved conflict.
  • Provides dozens of step-by-steps suggestions and practical ways to replace "old mindsets and behaviors" from unhealthy family relationships with God's truth.

What Is a Dysfunctional Family?

    • dysfunctional family is one where improper and immature behavior of at least one parent damages the growth of individuality and healthy relational skills among family members.
    • dysfunctional family is one where family members are negatively affected emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
  • dysfunctional family is one where everyone is negatively affected even when only one family member experiences a problem.

Dysfunctional Families Produce Dysfunctional Families

Dysfunction looks different in each family. Here are some of the ways dysfunction can creep into the family unit:

  • Overly possessive or faultfinding parents
  • Poor organization or overly rigid structure
  • Inconsistent and indecisive parents
  • Emotionally abandoned children (including emotional abuse)
  • Overly rigid structure or lacking parental authority

How Do Kids Cope? 4 Dysfunctional Family Roles Children Adopt

When parents are unable to manage their lives, children learn to cope by playing specific roles in the family or "acting out" in damaging ways. Typically, the child will adopt one of four roles:

    • The Responsible Child
      The "hero" tries to fix the family problems and help create a positive family image through noteworthy achievement. This child receives positive attention but often develops perfectionistic, compulsive behaviors.
    • The Rebellious Child
      The "scapegoat" draws focus away from the family's problems and onto himself or herself with rebellious, uncontrollable behavior. This child consumes time and energy from the family members and often develops self-destructive life patterns.
    • The Reclusive Child
      The "lost child" hopes that by ignoring family problems, the difficulties will go away. This child avoids attention and is often lonely and withdrawn.
  • The Reveling Child
    The "clown" uses humor and antics to direct the focus away from family problems. This child is often highly active or hyperactive and usually seeks to be the center of attention.

A child may even display a combination of these traits or progress through different stages as they attempt to manage their emotional pain...just seeking to survive. To find out more about the coping devices children us, check out June Hunt's Dysfunctional Family.

How can I accept and let go of my dysfunctional past?

Life is a series of choices! Here's just a few choices you (and those you are helping) can make to begin breaking free from the influence of your past. I will...

    1. Give Christ first place in my heart.
      • Ask Jesus to be Lord of my life. Accept His forgiveness and love.
        Be aware of His constant presence within me. Allow Him to lead in all I say and do.
    1. Give thought to my present dysfunctional characteristics.
      • Pray for God to reveal my weaknesses. Pray for wisdom to understand how to change. Pray that I will draw on Christ, who is my strength, to make changes. Pray for wise and discerning friends to enlighten and encourage me.
    1. Give myself boundaries.
      • Define who I am: "I am a child of God," and who I am not: "I am not a piece of property." Refuse to be manipulated or mistreated and learn to say, "No." Stop playing the victim: "As an adult, I am not powerless."
  1. Give up resentment
    • Consider the consequences of unforgiveness. Confess my own areas of unforgiveness. Contemplate the sins for which I have received forgiveness. Choose to forgive and keep on choosing to forgive.

"When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me." (1 Corinthians 13:11)

The dynamics of dysfunction are detrimental to the family. Discover how to cultivate your family now for the generations that follow as you establish and apply the principles of biblical truth in your own family.

Look for all 42 titles in the Hope For The Heart Biblical Counseling Library. These mini-books are for people who seek freedom from codependency, anger, conflict, verbal and emotional abuse, depression, or other problems.

Paperback, 96 pages, 4 x 7 inches.
Product Code: 288X
ISBN: 9781596369368


June Hunt

June Hunt, M.A. Criswell College, is a biblical counselor whose award-winning radio program "Hope For The Heart" is heard on 900 radio outlets around the world. For more than 25 years, she has counseled people, offering them hope for today's problems. June has helped many people with emotional, relational, and spiritual problems experience God's love through biblical hope and practical help. Click here to find out more about Hope for the Heart.

Hope For The Heart Board of Reference

Dr. Henry Blackaby (Blackaby Ministries International), Dr. Rick Warren (Saddleback Church), Dr. Tony Evans (The Urban Alternative), Joni Eareckson Tada (Joni and Friends), Kay Arthur (Precept Ministries International), Dr. David Jeremiah (Turning Point), Dr. Tim Clinton (American Association of Christian Counselors), Dr. Bruce Wilkinson (Bruce Wilkinson Ministries), Dr. Chip Ingram (Living on the Edge), Roger Staubach (SRS Real Estate Partners), Steve Arterburn (New Life Ministries), Vonette Bright (Campus Crusade for Christ), Dr. Charles Stanley (In Touch Ministries), Zig Ziglar (Ziglar Training Systems)

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