This has been a inspiration to me for years, I just read it again with a Weekday Bible Group to get them to read it. It was a blessing to everyone in the group and helped in so many ways. Think that you are doing the Christian way, but feel overwhelmed and used, you probably need Boundaries. God has them, you can too.
"Beyond Boundaries" was so helpful for me that I bought numerous copies to share with others whom I know needed guidance in moving into healthy states in their relationships. One person I gave this book to read it and found it so beneficial that she reread it a second time within a month.
"Boundaries", by Cloud and Townsend, is a wonderful resource for identifying relational problems and discovering behavioral changes that can help overcome those problems. "Beyond Boundaries", by Townsend, reviews the boundary issues and moves into identification of character issues behind boundary problems. It is both educational and encouraging, since it directs an individual through steps that lead to good decisions and healthy relationships in the future. The two books combined provide a one-two punch for overcoming relational disasters.